Different people have different reasons for wanting to be FI; for me, it is mainly travel and more free time.

My Why of FI

  • Post author:Bob Haegele
  • Post last modified:June 3, 2023

“My why of FI” – how’s that for a rhyming phrase?

Anyway, I have a confession to make: I’m not the most decisive person. If you ask me what I like to do for fun, I will probably have a difficult time responding very confidently. I mean, other than working on this blog, of course!

But since I don’t typically mention that in the context of small talk, I will usually say something like, “Ya know, typical stuff like going to concerts, the outdoors, traveling; that sort of stuff.”

Financial independence, also known as FI, affords you the freedom to do more of things you love in life.

Indeciveness is a Real Problem

I don’t exactly know why, but I have often felt it’s been difficult to find things for which I have a real passion. Of course, a lot of that comes back to the indecisiveness; I perpetually have trouble deciding what really interests me. It’s just one of my flaws, I guess.

So when and if I find something that makes me especially passionate, I usually take it and run with it. I go all in. I don’t stop until my goal is met.

After all, if someone who is generally indecisive is passionate about something, that must have some real significance. It must, right?

If you hadn’t yet guessed, one such thing, something I absolutely know is important to me is financial independence, also known as FI.

FI is something I began working toward years ago when I began aggressively paying down my student loans. Back then, I didn’t really know I was working toward FI; I just knew I didn’t want to be in debt any longer than I needed to be.

It’s probably for that reason, because I didn’t have a definite end-goal, that I maybe didn’t have the best strategy possible. If you don’t have a clear goal in mind, it will obviously be difficult to reach it.

That said, FI is very important to me. And while I likely have many years left until I get there, I’m not stopping before I do.

Why Ask Why?

I often see people explain why they are doing something, as I will do here. What I see less often is them saying why they are explaining it. Maybe that is overly obvious already, but in case it isn’t, I thought I would touch on that briefly.

As mentioned above, the reason for asking this question is to get a clear understanding of our goals. If you aren’t sure what it is that motivates you, it makes working toward your goals much more difficult.

By clearly defining why you want to be FI (or whatever goal you may have), working toward that goal becomes a lot easier. I will touch on this more in-depth later, but for me, travel is one of the main motivating factors. I know that travel is important to me; continuing to set my sights on it keeps me motivated.

Financial Independence, AKA FI

If you need to work in order to survive, you depend on that income; thus, you are financially dependent. Financial independence, then, is the opposite scenario: you don’t need a paycheck on a regular basis in order to survive.

There are several factors that could allow you to be financially independent. Or some combination of them. Dividends from stocks, growth in your stocks’ value, income from things like courses and affiliate marketing, and so on.

There are a lot of ways to make passive income and while I am no expert in that area – not yet, anyway – that is the real key to financial independence.

One thing I have written about before on this blog is emergency funds. Indeed, emergency funds are important; without one, you could be one major event away from financial catastrophe at any moment.

If you become financially independent, though, the emergency fund becomes slightly less critical. No, I’m not saying you shouldn’t bother to have one if you are financially independent. But, for example, let’s say your financial independence comes from the growth of your investment portfolio.

If that is the case, you are probably safer after reaching financial independence. I say that because people lose their jobs all the time, for one reason or another. That may sound grim, and we all like to think it will never happen to us.

But the truth is it happens all the time. Certainly more often than a huge crash in the stock market.

The stock market, while sometimes volatile, may be less volatile than your job.
The stock market, while sometimes volatile, may be less volatile than your job.

Of course, there is no such thing as a sure thing. Even if you are financially independent, things still happen. So if you are living paycheck to paycheck – or whatever the equivalent is when financially independent – there is always a risk. And so you should certainly always have an emergency fund.

While it’s true that early retirement isn’t for everyone, I do think it’s for me.

Traveling the World

Wanderlust is perhaps the predominant element of my why. I know I am not the only one who wants to travel, but I feel my desire for it is just a bit more intense than it is for others.

Of course, how badly one wants something is difficult to measure, but still. Rather than watching TV or even reading, one thing I often find myself doing while I’m bored is perusing Google Maps Street View. As I browse, I am simultaneously trying to find places that look “cool” while also daydreaming about being in that place at this very moment.

Needless to say, it isn’t that easy. Even though I admittedly have it easier than many, due to not having children and a slew of other potential obstacles, I still wouldn’t call it “easy.” That’s because, in addition to needing the money to make my travel dreams a reality (or the points, or both), I also need to have the time off.

The really crazy part? I get just shy of six weeks’ vacation, but I have heard of many people who only have two or three. Yes, I do use mine for a family trip over Christmas, and often at least one other domestic trip. But that still doesn’t bring me down to two or three weeks, so it must be very tough for some people.

This Prague sunset is the sort of thing that keeps me motivated.
This Prague sunset is the sort of thing that keeps me motivated.

And I haven’t even mentioned the fact that in some cases, there may be stipulations that must be met before you can take an extended leave. Just a couple of examples might be your having all team responsibilities covered in your absence, completion of a certain project, and so on.

Long story short, simply having the financial means to make travel happen – especially international travel – can be challenging enough. It gets even more complicated if you have children and other factors coming into play.

Then, if you add in having to work around a job, well, it’s easy to see why travel just doesn’t happen for some people, even if they would like it to happen.

If work were not a necessity, a lot of this would become much easier – particularly in my case!

Reclaiming My Time

I would say this one is a very close second to desperately wanting to travel. This is still very important to me. Outside of working on this blog, I have been looking for side hustles for a while now.

It definitely feels hard to break in, especially for someone who is new to them. But I continue to look because increasing my cash flow will allow me to invest more. In fact, I am always working to optimize my investments.

Some of you may have heard about the new Fidelity index funds with no management fees and no minimum investment. Luckily I already had accounts with Fidelity, so all I had to do was move money over to FZROX. I also haven’t had these funds very long, so capital gains tax would be minimal.

As you can see, this is all very much a work in progress. Just about every day, I look for what small improvements I can make to my finances. Sometimes I come up empty, but again, if I do find something – I take it and run with it.

I want to reclaim my time. I have said before that I have no immediate plans to make any sort of drastic career change. In fact, that generally is not considered to be the FI philosophy. The FI philosophy is about having options.

Reclaiming My Freedom

While things such as reclaiming my time and being able to travel certainly have my attention right now, this is the ultimate goal. In other words, being able to do whatever I want whenever I want.

Part of me hates that I am making every job sound like the worst thing imaginable. I know many people have jobs they love, and that’s great! Honestly, I’m glad they do.

But as mentioned in the intro to this post, I am not the most decisive person. I have never really had a job that I have absolutely loved. None of them have really been horrible, either, but haven’t been so amazing as to make me want to stay indefinitely.

That’s what this is all about. Wanting to do what I want, when I want to do it. And that doesn’t necessarily mean being lazy, by the way. I get bored when I’m lazy.

No, I may very well be productive. But how I am being productive? That will be up to me. Or so I hope.


Hey there. My name is Bob Haegele and I'm a personal finance writer who has been freelancing since 2018. Since then, I've built a six-figure career as a freelance writer. My work has been featured in Business Insider, Forbes Advisor, TIME.com, USA Today, and many other outlets. Interested in starting a blog of your own? Check out my post on starting a blog.

This Post Has 15 Comments

  1. Jen

    I love your Why’s! 6 weeks of vacation in your current job? That’s amazing! My husband has about 2 months of accrued ‘vacation’ or ‘leave’ in his world, but it’s impossible to use all of it due to the nature of what he does in the military.

    1. Bob

      Ugh! That is frustrating. Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you two get to do more fun things in the near future!

  2. Xrayvsn

    The Why Of FI for each person is different but you do hit the majority of things that most people agree they are shooting for. I would love to be able to travel more while I am young enough to enjoy it (rather than sit on a big pile of money at the end of my life and don’t have the physical ability anymore.

    I’m already get amped up about 2 big trips I’m planning for next year and that’s the effect traveling has on you. Something you can look forward to before it happens, something to enjoy while it is happening, and something to enjoy with memories after.

    1. Bob

      Yes, for sure. Travel is important. Where are you headed?

  3. Lifetravelsoul

    Travel is also one of the reasons why I want to be FI. It’s just nice to retire early, travel, and blog about it.

    1. Bob

      Absolutely! That is the goal for me. Hopefully I can get there.

  4. Mark

    I started for FI at the age of 29 finally arrived. Wife will work until next year and then it’s traveling. Glad I didn’t have any loans to contend with. ???

    1. Bob

      Wow, awesome – congrats! I wish I could say the same, now – but I’m working on it. 🙂

  5. Liz

    I think you did a great job fleshing out your “Why’s” of FI. I don’t really know what I want yet in my life, except that I NEED to be debt-free. I feel like I can’t think past that right now.

    1. Bob

      It’s such a freeing thing to achieve. I hope you get there ASAP!

  6. Daisy

    Another great post, Bob. My Why of Fi is wanderlust, I do want to see more of the world, and to have a new never before lived in home with a pool, which needs money first and for most. So, yeah, I’m shooting for Fi still, maybe passed the RE but that’s okay too. Everybody’s why is different. Never too late to start. Just don’t forget to have fun along the way. P.S. I get you with the indecisiveness too. I’m same.

    1. Bob

      Definitely never too late to start! And I’m glad I’m not the only indecisive one. 🙂

  7. Tawnya

    It’s definitely important to have a “why” for all the major things we do. I think financial independence is a great goal no matter whether people want to leave their 9-5 or not. I’m in a privileged position because I have a great deal of time off from teaching, so I can fulfill some of the why’s you described above, while also feeling fulfilled when I’m at my job. However, no matter what stage of my life I’m in, I think I will always need to be working toward something. I don’t do very well with down time 🙂

  8. Bonnie (43BlueDoors)

    The why is different for everyone, but I always love to hear the why from others. Freedom is definitely a huge draw. I loved my job (till the last couple years of it) but limited vacation time was always a problem. Even if we had the time accrued others in the office would frown on taking a full two weeks at a time. What can you explore in two weeks?! That is really cool that you have six weeks that’s a great way to get started on your travel till you reach full-time travel. Do you have an FI date?

    1. Bob

      Certainly not an exact date. I’m aiming to get there when I’m 40, but it’s hard to know for sure!

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